Have I Found ‘The One’?

Can you trust your partner?

Does your partner respect any differences between the both of you?

Is your partner a relationship-oriented person?

Is there a mutual sexual attraction and a sense of "body comfort”?

Are you willing to acknowledge and tolerate each other’s’ flaws?

Is your partner someone you can talk to about anything?

Do your friends and family like your partner too?

Is your partner someone with whom you don't feel pressure to be perfect 24/7?

Does your partner take a genuine interest in your life, and you in theirs?

Can you lean on each other for support?

Do you handle conflict well together?

Does your partner share a similar vision of the future?

Is there healthy independence?

Based on your answers, it’s unlikely that you have found the one. If we have to believe fairy tales, there is only one single person in the universe who is destined to be your forever partner. However, according to relationship therapists, this is not the case. And that is definitely not something bad! A healthy relationship helps you to learn and grow. Theoretically, you can meet more than one ‘the ones’. Relax and don’t worry, but make sure to be in healthy and happy relationships!

Based on your answers, you are displaying some signs related to having found ‘the one’, or a great partner. Even if your partner seems to be ‘the one’, you still can have doubts. It’s normal to consider both the strengths and weaknesses of the person and your relationship with them. No relationship is perfect. You choose this person and accept them the way they are, including the flaws. That is what it means to consider someone as ‘the one’. It’s important to pay attention to how we feel when we around our partners. If you feel calm and genuinely happy, that is a great sign.

Based on your answers, you are displaying many signs typically seen among individuals who have found ‘the one’. When you find ‘the one’, you will feel that the relationships just flows very easily. You understand each other’s standpoints and feel the same way or accept them. The compatibility is definitely not there if a relationship is characterized by conflict and control. If it feels good and easy for you to be with your partner, that can be a huge indicator that you have found ‘the one’. You can be yourself and you feel comfortable.