Most common questions used to investigate
Can you say YES to every invitation you get?
Are you listening to others?
Are you a good storyteller?
Do you say what you think?
Do you read books?
Common conclusions
If you want to become more interesting immediately you should definitely start saying YES to every invitation you get no matter how random, unappealing or exhausting it sounds. When you end up at the inevitable dud, you will walk away with a story and when your experience takes a turn you were never expecting, you will walk away with an even better story. And when everything goes as planned, you will definitely have a cool anecdote about.
Believe it or not the most compelling people spend a lot of time not speaking. The funny thing is, the more you let someone talk and listen to them, the more interesting a person you become to them. You need to know that listening to others makes you more interesting for a couple reasons. First, you pick up a ton of interesting information which you can then use down the road with different people.
Maybe you have amassed a ton of information and experiences — but if you can not communicate them to other people, you are sunk, so you should learn how to be a storyteller (recent research found that men who can tell a good story are also seen as more attractive by women).
It is so good because you definitely need to say what you think. People who do not opine on or disagree with anything can be really boring.
You can definitely learn about different cultures and historical periods by reading everything you can get your hands on. Reading a lot can open up multiple new worlds to you so you could become more interesting person to others.
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