Why Does My Cat Stare At Me?

Is your cat standing tall with a stiff stance with its tail down, while staring at you?

Is your cat's body relaxed and your cat is blinking slowly while staring at you?

Is your cat crouched down with his tail tucked under his body while staring at you?

A cat that is upset will exhibit telltale signs, like pupil dilation, ears turned to the side, a stiffer body, and an agitated tail that’s swishing side to side. That body language, in addition to direct eye contact, is a potential threat and a signal that your cat needs some space. In this case, the best thing to do is to avert your eyes, distract your cat, and redirect his attention to another activity to add some space between you and your cat.

Blinking is a friendly gesture, so we can safely assume that when combined with loose, relaxed body language, your cat is telling you that he wants to be close to you and spend time with you.

If your cat is staring at you and he is crouched down with his tail tucked under his body, or if he is hiding behind a piece of furniture, this is an indication your cat is fearful. In his mind, he is keeping an eye out for danger. He will stare at whoever may be closest, is making the loudest noise, or is moving around.

Many cats are incredibly curious by nature and they always want to know what’s going on. It could be just that they’re observing you see if you’re going to do anything interesting. Cats are visual hunters and when they go outdoors, they’re on high alert, keeping their keen eyes peeled for anything moving. When they’re indoors, that laser focus will shift to the motion in the household, which is likely you, especially if you’re up and about doing things.