Is My Partner Supportive?

Does your partner bail when times get rough?

Does your partner refuse to offer encouragement?

Does your partner leave you hanging?

Is your partner dismissive?

Does your partner talk over you or cut you off?

Do you feel your partner is not happy for your successes?

Does your partner refuse to follow up or check in, especially when he/she knows you are going through something difficult?

Based on your answers, it is unlikely that your partner is being unsupportive. That is, of course, a great and healthy sign. One of the many benefits of a relationship is having the support of your partner. He or she will listen to your problems, lift you up when you are feeling down, and is happy for you when you are having success. And of course, you should do the same for your partner. If a partner is not showing support, it can really feel as if an important part of a healthy relationship is missing.

Based on your answers, your partner shows one or more signs of being unsupportive. Having psychological and emotional support in a relationship is very important and exemplifies the level of attachment, love, care and stability. In case support is not consistently present, it may cause the relationship to fail. If you don’t feel supported by your partner, it’s very important to talk with your partner about it and try to find a solution to fix the problem. For a relationship to be healthy, both partners should take time to hear each other’s problems, to help each other through rough times, and to offer encouragement.

Unfortunately, your partner is displaying various signs typically seen among individuals who are unsupportive. If you don’t feel supported by your partner and if it’s bugging you, you should let them know. It’s very difficult to handle things on your own. Everyone needs encouragement and support to get through the adversities of life. It’s important to talk about your needs and desires with your partner, and hopefully he or she will start being more supportive. Having psychological and emotional support in a relationship is fundamental. If this is not present, a relationship is very likely to fail.