Most common questions used to investigate
Do you miss your boyfriend?
Did your ex-boyfriend reach out to you?
Are you worried that you may not get another boyfriend?
Do your ex-boyfriend leave you for another person?
Are you feeling lonely?
Do you think you need psychological help?
Common conclusions
If you miss your boyfriend, you may be subconsciously looking for ways to talk to him again and you're likely to use the first opportunity to open the lines of communication again. Be honest yourself and if you miss your ex-boyfriend, admit it, and see if your boyfriend also has the same feeling about it. If it works for both of you again, there's nothing wrong getting back together.
If your ex-boyfriend reached out to you, think about it, and evaluate if you still have feelings for him. If you think you have moved on and don't want to get back again, simply ignore, or even better, tell him that you have moved on and are not interested anymore. On the other hand, if you still have feelings for him, there's nothing wrong in talking and exploring the possibility of getting together again.
In case you think you're not going to be able to get another boyfriend again, think about the reasons. Does it signify low self-confidence or is it something else that's bothering you. This thought could imply some serious self-esteem issues, so make sure you reach out to a professional to iron it out. This should never be a reason to get back with your ex-boyfriend again.
When your ex-boyfriend left you for another person, it's clear that you should never get in touch with that person again. He has not only hurt you but has made you feel of his love. You don't need such a person who doesn't respect your feelings. So, instead of trying to contact him, look for ways to overcome your feelings for him, so you can also move on. Never go back to someone who dumped you for another person as you'll end up feeling worse and it can dent your confidence levels as well.
Getting in touch with your ex-boyfriend is not the right way to overcome your loneliness. Instead, find a hobby or something that will keep you busy and consider having a pet that will love you unconditionally for what you are. Also, never show your weakness to the other person to ensure that you are not taken advantage of.
There are many life coaches and psychologists who have gained expertise in dealing with relationship issues. Get in touch with them and take the necessary counseling you need to overcome your current state.
It's good that the breakup hasn't affected you badly. But evaluate again and if you think you need help at any point, never hesitate to reach out to professionals.
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