Why Do I Have Difficulties Reaching Orgasm?

Do you experience either of the following symptoms on almost all or all (approximately 75%-100%) occasions of sexual activity? 1. Marked delay in, marked infrequency of, or absence of orgasm, 2. Markedly reduced intensity of orgasmic sensations.

Have the symptoms persisted for a minimum duration of approximately 6 months?

Do the symptoms cause significant distress?

While it is unlikely that you have a significant problem with reaching orgasms, you may be displaying a sign related to it. Remember that reaching a climax for many women is not so easy. It can be a difficult task to understand what works for you in the bedroom, or what factors affect your performance and feelings in the bedroom. First of all, anxiety can make it difficult to orgasm. Make sure to use more lubricant to make the vagina more sensitive. Besides, you could try using a sex toy, it can give you a different experience and may help you achieve orgasm. Also, it may be important to tell your partner what you like. In case you are taking medication, that could also be a cause of the problem

While it is unlikely that you have female orgasmic disorder, you are displaying some signs related to it. Female orgasmic disorder occurs when a woman has a problem with reaching orgasm, even when she’s sexually aroused. It may happen to all women from time to time, but when the problem persists, it may be important to talk with your doctor. Sometimes physical factors are the underlying cause, or emotional or psychological factors. Often, it’s a combination of these factors. Make sure to tell your partner what you do and don’t like. Besides, masturbating a few times a week may help as well.

Unfortunately, you are displaying symptoms typically seen among individuals who have female orgasmic disorder.