Why Do I Ejaculate So Fast?

Do you show a recurrent pattern of ejaculation, occurring during partnered sexual activity, within about 1 minute since the beginning of sexual activity?

Has the problem described in the first question been present for a minimum of 6 months and experienced on (almost) all occasions of sexual activity?

Does the problem described in the first question cause distress?

Based on your answers, you may ejaculate fast once in a while but it does not seem to be a serious problem to worry about. Premature ejaculation happens when a man ejaculates sooner than the partner would wish. It is not an uncommon problem; one out of three men experience this at some point. There is no need for concern as long as delayed ejaculation does not happen frequently.

You are showing some signs related to premature ejaculating. There is no specific time when a man should ejaculate during intercourse. But it’s likely to be too soon if it happens less than minute after starting. It may cause frustrations, also for your partner. There are psychological (e.g., relationship distress, depression) and biological (e.g., abnormal hormone levels) factors that can cause premature ejaculation. A lot of men think they duffer from premature ejaculation, but the symptoms don’t meet the diagnostic criteria for the disorder. These men may have natural periods of fast ejaculation and periods of normal ejaculation.

Unfortunately, you are displaying the symptoms typically seen among individuals who suffer from premature ejaculation. It may be essential to talk with your doctor. Don’t feel embarrassed, it’s a common and treatable condition. A conversation with your doctor may help to understand that it’s a common problem and, as a consequence, it may lessen your concerns. Your doctor will determine what is the underlying cause of your symptoms. If treatment is required, behavioral techniques, counselling, medication, and topical anesthetics are an option. Most of the time, behavioral treatment in combination with medication will be effective.