Most common questions used to investigate
Do you have dinner together as a family?
Have you ever thought of what life is like for your son or daughter?
Do you go on date nights with your spouse?
Do you go on vacation?
Do you talk to your parents often?
Do you cook together as a family?
Common conclusions
Make it a point to have dinner together as a family as it helps you see everyone and have a conversation. Put all gadgets aside and talk about what happened throughout the day. In fact, this practice of eating dinner together brings families closer and it may even be a good time to answer your kids' questions and to tell them a thing or two about your work and life too.
Often, we tend to use adult wisdom to judge the actions of our children. Instead, why don't you look into their everyday life, the pressures that come with the need to fit in the social group, the education and social burdens that we place on them and more. This will help you better understand their life and based on it, you can have a meaningful conversation with them. Such a change in your mindset is sure to bring your sons and daughters close to you and you'll look forward to spending time with each other.
Go on a date with your spouse at least once a month. It's a great opportunity to catch up with each other and to show that you still love and care for each other, despite the tight work schedules and kids. This practice can go a long way in ironing out differences and bring both of you closer to each other.
Family vacations are necessary to bond with your family. Make sure you plan your time and money for a getaway, even if it's just to a nearby city.
As your parents get old, they miss you more than you imagine. Though you tend to be busy with your own lives, take a moment to think of them and squeeze in a call to them at least once a week. This can make a big difference to them and you'll be surprised to see how much they look forward to that call from you. Visit them as often as you can and take your spouse and kids along with you. All these are part of family time too.
Nothing brings people together more than food! When you cook together as a family, there seems to be so much to talk about in a relaxed environment. Cooking together can help bridge the differences and this family activity can lead to a good outcome, both in terms of relationships and good food.
Great! Try to make some family heirloom dishes as it can be a good way to introduce your kids to the times when you grew up. You'll also be surprised at the many pleasant memories you may have of cooking with your parents. Hopefully, you can pass on some of that magic to your children too.
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