Do I Have Premature (Early) Ejaculation?

Do you show a recurrent pattern of ejaculation, occurring during partnered sexual activity, within around 1 minute following vaginal penetration and before you wish it?

Is the problem described in the first question present for a minimum of 6 months and experienced on (almost) all occasions of sexual activity?

Does the problem described in the first question cause distress?

Can you confirm that the problem is not better explained by a nonsexual mental disorder or as a consequence of severe relationship distress or other significant stress and is not attributable to the effects of a substance/medication or another medical condition?

You do not have premature (early) ejaculation.

Based on your answers, most likely you will not be diagnosed with premature ejaculation. If you experience symptoms of premature ejaculation infrequently, there is no reason for concern. It is important to seek help from your doctor in case you ejaculate sooner than you wish (or your partner wishes) during most sexual encounters. Premature ejaculation is a sexual complaint that is more common than you think, so don’t be afraid to talk about it.

Based on your answers, it may be important to seek help from a doctor. There are biological and psychological factors that can influence premature ejaculation. Don’t feel embarrassed to talk about it, premature ejaculation is a common problem and it is treatable. For most men it can be a relief to talk to a doctor about their symptoms. They will feel less concerned about their problem once they know it’s a normal condition and treatable.

Based on your answers, there is a chance you will be diagnosed with premature ejaculation. In this case it is highly recommended to make an appointment with your doctor. Premature ejaculation is a treatable condition. Treatment often includes medication, therapy and sexual techniques that delay ejaculation. Premature ejaculation can cause stress and relationship issues. Additionally, the condition can make fertilization difficult in case you and your partner are planning to have a baby. Take the necessary steps to get your condition treated and to relieve (relationship) stress.